Truly I cannot understand the urge to spend thousands on a watch - I recon a good store of upmarket wine is better value. Each to his own though.
Each to their own indeed; I'm not a massive wine fan, but I reckon I would be struggling to get much of my money back years later when I have 'enjoyed' drinking it, where has I can use and enjoy my high-end watches, all of which I could sell today for a profit. I'm similar to you with cars though; I don't see the point in spending tens of thousands on a new car when I can get a cheap and cheerful used Asian model for a few grand that will do the trick and last me a few years!
People will always be prepared to pay more for something they see the beauty in, whether that is a car, motorbike, watch or fine wine.
Parson, if you give us an idea of your revised budget we might be able throw some more ideas at you. As stated above, if you are currently serving then you might be able to get a very good deal on one of the project Bremonts.