Whinge? Why yes, probably because they feel insecure about themselves, and feel they must tell all everything, much like you seem to geisha. The rest of us who found it "difficult to survive" got pro-active about it and got a second job. Unfortunately, do you have much of an idea as to how difficult it can be to be told that you are so way over qualified for some of the most menial positions in the workforce because you've had the drive to actually get off your butt previously, start a business and employ a few people for a number of years? After the 100th time, I got up again and tried again once more.
SJ a small thinker? Oh **(yes, I did think about naming you), if only you knew.
Go play trollies, you big thinker, you.