FED ... I think we only got one claim! But we managed for about 10 years to get her paying for the OMQ at sqn ldr rate, with me collocated. She caught up with me eventually, and we enjoyed a huge 1* residence at Bracknell for the last few years when she was Director ISS
There are many tales of serving senior couples ... IIRC there was a gp capt GD(P) with a wg cdr spouse. NICE PENSION!