I was 'facilitated' to talk to my (serving) wife on ASMA between Stanley and Waddington when my father was dying of cancer, and to discuss whether I should be short-toured down there and screw someone elses' life. I stayed, and made it to my father's bedside with a few days to spare (not that he was in a state to really notice, I suspect).
My thanks to both OC Ops for facilitating that. It meant a lot.