Harry for once I seriously agree with you, I have seen a big deterioration in the "Captain" interaction and leadership when it comes to looking after the crew that they are charged with looking after as part of that "Commander" status that so many demand and have a sense of entitlement to treat others with contempt .
It's more than being an Ars@ to people, its called being an effective leader that looks after all the crew regardless on how annoying they may be.