France to Copenhagen is a challenge too. When that son (from first marriage) and D I L were married 10 years ago, there were 8 parents/step parents. The real parents were on the top (round) table. each separated by one from their "ex", the second timers were banished to another table. When the photos came out there was gap like a missing tooth - bride's mother had in the meantime sacked her then boyfriend and had him photoshopped/airbrushed out of the pictures!