RTO, what an extraordinary statement!
You suggest that non military pilots flying fast jets have less "ego to bring along" . Congratulations! You've been watching Top Gun and must be the first person ever to be taken in by it!
Do you really believe that Professional military pilots are ego - driven, and not consummate Professionals yet civvies wealthy enough to emulate the people they presumably hadn't the skills or character to join are not? What cr@p!
Your knowledge and understanding of both pilots, civvy and military, as well as basic human nature are clearly sadly lacking.
Your moniker is apt. Reject take-off and stay on the ground. It would be better for all of us..