Why don't we just accept the reality that women think differently than men. Therefore, there are certain jobs that women tend to prefer and certain jobs that men tend to prefer. All you have to do is listen(while hidden to the subjects a group of women will talk about compared to men if you want proof).
That is just the way it is.
My theory is that women have a built-in desire to want to help. That is part of the explanation of why so so many ATC folk are female along with other professions such as doctors. As well, being home most days(or nights) to see the kids is part of it.
So, get rid of the gender-based discrimination that makes many wonder how qualified any female pilot actually is, and hire those that interview the best.