The good thing for her is, while she will not be given a job for free, being female will land her lots of interviews. She should find temporary employment if some sort (everything around flight operations planning would be first choice), keep her license current, go to all aviation related fairs and exibitions and learn from every assessment and interview. Being qualified is one thing, being employable is another. Some need a little longer to learn that craft (and it really is one).
She will figure out, just keep going. Almost nobody is a well employed pilot a few months out of flight school, in fact it is pretty normal to be trying and trying for a couple of years.