You mention rattling off FMA's out of habbit. Eventually, that gets drowned into the background noise, and you may not even be paying attention to what the other guy is saying.
To be clear, I think we all agree that it's absolutely imperative to read the FMA, but I just can't find any value in verbalising it. It doesn't help me in any way, and the other pilot has his own FMA, so it's not helping him either.