I've seen very little that actually sets out to pan the pilot in any over the top manner.
We must have different opinions about what is an "over the top manner."
Edited to add .....
Much of the discourse on both threads has been moderate and polite.
I agree much has, particularly when it is between people who know the subject they are posting about even though they disagree about some things. People with expertise in a subject often do.
There are many people with relevant expertise on the other thread. Not on this one.
It is people polarising the debate and then reacting over-emotionally to views they do not agree with that gives these thread a confrontational appearance.
I don't think that's the cause of occasional frustration and impatient responses.
I repeat my comment above.