Noaches,
If you live in the USA, I would suggest trying to get a scholarship into one of the Academies through your Congressman or Senator. That way Uncle Sam is paying both for your degree and learning to fly. I have flown with TPs who have graduated from all three Services - four if you count the Marine Corps as separate to the Navy - and this is probably the most efficient (and economic) way of getting to that high status.
Best of Luck!