I have two passports, and there is no way the Yank's are going to check everywhere I'm going to. They can imagine they are at the centre of the world, but they aren't - it would be time for them to acnowledge reality.
My country is not going to communicate to anybody all my passports details, and if things are properly segregated, all will be fine. I always show certain passport for certain countries, and when going to US I always show the "clean" one, with a beautiful US visa in the middle of a lot of virgin pages.
At worst they will ban me from their country - and so what ? I have been there sufficiently enough, the rest of the world is big enough for me.
And if they qustion me too hard, I will show them the pictures of me flying and getting qualified on the F16 in the USAF, or pictures of PSAB in the 90s...
Long life to A380 in Iran Air livery.
I'm just writing this from cold Moscow, as an example.