I know this is kind of a delicate aspect, and please donīt read it wrong - but so far, all the female pilots I have met on my way during modular training, got their chance upon completing training. If they completed and where capable, that is.
So if you in any way are a "minority" in aviation, and can live up to the minimum standards, that might trump the age factor and at least get you an interview. Just my impression, alternate views and opinions are welcome.