How is it disrespectful to tell someone they won't make the grade-sounds like a simple and realistic statement of fact. If it offends you then maybe it is time for some self reflection. Just because you already hold a LHS somewhere does not guarantee you meet the necessary requirements of the new job you are applying for. If someone does not meet the required standard on a check is it 'disrespectful' to award a fail???? It would be if the same logic is applied-that is why we say our jobs are on the line every 6 months-nothing is guaranteed.