not so Bud - I go to Indonesia often and have spent quite some time there - I really like the place and the people
but you would be crazy not to recognise that there are very valid cultural differences - and I'm not saying which is best note - there's a lot to be said for the family values and consensus approach of the Javanese - especially when you compare it to say the USA.
We can point at any country and note "strange" behaviour and I sure as hell don't exempt the UK from that - it's just different that's all