I am a No.2 and I would never stoop as low and speak to junior crew that way! Saying that we all work as a team and no one, not even the no.1 would speak to their co-workers in that manner.
Did you notice the 'joke' he cracked, asking ehr "So..... what you going to do for work in October?". He was hinting that they would not take her on as a perm at the end of the season! OOH, how rude!