CP,as there is no indication on your `profile` with regard to experience,may I suggest that you should try to cover a broad variety of aircraft/rotorcraft/gliders/microlights,even if only with friends/instructors,so that you can have a better understanding of aircraft behaviour/control/performance,ergonomics.There are then lots of questions you ask; how,why,what,easy ,hard,difficult,nice,good, bad,etc,etc.....then ask the questions again....rather like women....