You mentioned being the wrong side of 30 and the long term game,
Though I should give all a bit of a laugh...what if someone is on the "middle" side of his...ehm...FORTIES*?
Needless to say one needs the nod for the AC and a job offer first, of course.
DK
* Still no attachments, kinda giving up on having a (human) life or living at "home"...