Okay, I can see that. John S-S happens to be a friend of mine, but I can see that his writing style could give that feeling of being lectured at. I was just curious really.
As bluskis said, perhaps I'm just hoping one day to see something from him along the lines of "I made a mistake, and learned from it, perhaps you could too...".
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Who before anybody who knows me jumps down my throat has also bent an aeroplane, and makes no secret of it or the lessons learned to those of my close acquaintance.