Big G,
Do you really think anybody on this thread will listen to someone with inside experience?
Experience tells me their are a bunch of guys out there chomping on the bit to go to the big dance with the "pretty girl" (ie. shiny jet) at EK...at any cost, blinders on... full speed ahead!
Sadly like many relationships, and many a prom, what initially seems like the "pretty girl" comes with a lot of baggage and many a dysfunctional "family" members...
Sure is fun in the short run to show off the arm candy... perhaps a roll or two in the hay.. until of course, reality sets in... and you have to live with the b*tch... (and the family). And when reality finally does set in... good luck with the divorce.. it can be costly.