I was typing a response but CBS beat me to it...... I echo his comments.
From over this side of the pond, the advice I would give would be to call a local operator and just "ask" them. Certainly over here, we would welcome you to our office and be happy to show you routes, altitudes etc and try and do everything we could to avoid your home if possible.
We as pilots and operators need to be cognizant of the impact we have on our local communities, and try to educate rather than get into fights.