I stand by that comment, I'm afraid! Things do go wrong, no matter how well you have planned - it's how you deal with it that's important I would say. I think that's a pretty reasonable attitude to have.
And yes, Allan is the man to speak to I would agree. I know him quite well by now and have spoken with him (the point of this thread is actually to discuss something he said!)
All I'm seeking is others' opinions.