A few of those, and you smarten up promptly, but dangerously, you have to be in the situation to get the scare. How do we keep pilots from getting into the situations, which scare them into learning?
I am not sure you can. With the exception of BPF, comments above, does it fall within an instructors remit to go that far? One would hope that common sense eventually prevails, coupled with experience, but as you rightly highlight, you have to have been there to truly appreciate how bad it can get..