Don't forget to look at the situation from the other side of the fence. I know a F/O that lost his father, got into a depression (no suicidal tendencies though) and did the correct thing by going to an AME instead of going to a GP without declaring his profession. He lost his license and is now, having recovered fully, fighting to get it back. Shame this little ordeal will probably further cement his chances of getting back in the FD.