Volunteerpilot, I may be completely wrong however I can't help but get the impression that you really wanted this, though since you haven't been successful you are being somewhat bitter about the whole thing. I'm sure many of us here have tried numerous times before at a number of schemes and still have nothing (I definitely have !). That doesn't mean anything other than you won't be becoming a pilot with this particular scheme this time around, nothing more.
I find that the best thing to do is go back through your application. Analyse it objectively and see where you may have fallen short in the eyes of the assessors with regards matching the competencies they want. I genuinely am not trying to be funny but it will go a whole lot further than pretending you didn't want it and posting bitter comments about the whole thing as it appears to me that it's something you would have loved to do.