Thanks for all the feedback - plenty to mull over...
If we can't get a handful of matched days and some leave together its a no-go (we have no kids).
Been getting conflicting info on spouses flying together. Apparently 2 FO's and FO/Capt have operated together previously, at least on ULR's...
@Muttley Crew It would have been easier if she'd stayed as a dental nurse