You can even go flying when on holiday before you get your license...
St. Cyr (Paris), Torp (Norway) and Lilydale (Melbourne, Oz) are in my logbook before license. (Although they can neither count as PUT nor anything else - they're in there with brackets around them).
Same as above - contact the club and ask for an instructor to come with you.
It appears that not all countries allow passengers/family in the back when you're under instruction, though.
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