look kid. there are lots of things that appeal to us. so first you will have to figure out how to make lots of money.
but that is the cool part of the job, so just find a neat job that you don't hate and save money.
I put a huge amount of effort into the money making part to pay for flying. Looking back I would have more money now just by doing the other things.
Get a medical first, take a few lessons and look at the money you spent. Are you ready to give up dating, a new car, nice clothes for the next 10 years? IF yes, maybe you have a chance. maybe.