As pilot of many years in the airline industry I would certainly say that pilots are extremely thankful for good ATC service. There is a great relief in the cockpit in many a busy environment when there is a competent controller on the airwaves, this is not always the case sadly.
Pilots can relate to a lot of the points in the initial post also. Don't worry my ATC friends, you are greatly appreciated and we all appreciate a smooth and efficient operation from either end of the microphone and courtesy should always be applied.
Rgds
Jack...... In the middle of the night in my hotel room, unable to sleep, the only English Channel on the TV is CNN and unable to go to sleep in my own bed after my shift. On half of my days off I am stuck down route unable to get the things done at home that I need to do. When I do get home I will be unable to get the things done that I need to do as I will be jet lagged and trying to recover and rest before the next bout of this glamorous lifestyle.
Courtesy, Respect, Manners CRM to all.