I find this topic quite amazing.
There seems to be several 'seasoned' pilots responding to these points in a rather strange way.
Infact, I thought the person who initially started the post was asking for other peoples' views on the topic and not an interrogation into their use of the cases of the English language, at what time they made their points.
Anyway, I too have recently done a CRM yearly refresher, and one of the most important points I was taught was:
Do not let things out of your control or influence upset you or cause you to become angry.
I find it makes my life a lot easier by following this, and I wander if maybe a few of you guys should perhaps adopt such a method?