EB described Hanna.R to me once with the single line "Excellent pilot, dreadful woman".
I suspect we're going too far on the point away from the theme of the forum, but from the experiences of my moderately unsheltered life, I'd say that the simple distinction of "straight" versus "gay"/"lesbian" does not really work in the real world. Some people have a very straightforward binary existence in that regard, many don't.
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