thank you backpacker for understanding.
WHAT I DO NOT UNDERSTAND is how someone with a full instrument rating would not understand this.
I STRONGLY ENCOURAGE YOU TO FIND A REALLY GOOD INSTRUCTOR with LOTS OF REAL INSTRUMENT FLYING EXPERIENCE dear OP!!!
the glideslope takes you to the runway (loc too). but you are going to a completely different airport SO GET DOWN AS QUICKLY AS YOU CAN (within published , safe limits)
then you can start looking for your other airport.
really, how don't you understand this?