The Col is correct
Anyone in their first 3 or 4 years must be made to realise that what is going on now is SOP and the behaviour only declines over time. Whilst there are bad experiences worldwide, I can assure you that in my opinion you are experiencing the worst of the worse when it comes to playing loose with peoples futures. Many people in the past have learned the hard way.
Plan a way out, perhaps not tomorrow, but make a plan.
There is no future here.