So when does it all click?

[Camargue]

crash one,

stall speed in a turn is the square root of the load factor plus s/l clean stalling speed

ie

45 aob is about 1.37g iirc? so multiply sq root of this - 1.17 by your s/l clean stalling speed to get the stall speed in a 45 turn (this assumes you are applying load)

if you waggle whilst applying load and reach 60 aob your stall speed will increase by a factor of 1.41, abt 80 aob its 2.4 (assuming you maintain load)