Please educate yourself on the culture of ISIL.
Its not just the culture of ISIL
the view women as second-class citizens
I believe there a significant proportion of that particular religion in particular regions who share the same belief.
that should stay at home with the kids
Like thats not just confined to that religion, it was only a couple of decades ago we outlawed conjugal rights. All societies undergo social evolutionary processes, its up to you t decide if which way their going is positive or not.
It is a balance that has to be kept when your making changes not to piss off to many people due to you stabilizing your own country. Considering the country she is in, she is damm lucky and privileged to be in such a position.
Is that fair, nope, thats life.