Timothy, perhaps an acknowledgement that you contributed in some significant way to the feather ruffling wouldn't go amiss? Your public salvo which appeared on two other fora (faceB and EuroGA) where you accused the controller of 'getting his own back' and being 'unprofessional', together with an indication that you had formally complained to the CAA wasn't a great start.
I vaguely recollect that you hold/held a professional pilot licence.