the EEC/EU is not a single country, it is a lose affiliation of many countries.
I thought the concern (certainly among those looking to get out) is that it's no longer such a loose affiliation.
I accept that there are differences, but the general principal stands. Do folks really think that the issue would be settled if Scotland voted to leave, but the rest of the UK voted to keep them in?
Sorry, but the comparison to the disintegration of Yugoslavia is alarmist (and lazy) clap-trap. None of the conditions that existed in Milosevic's Yugoslavia in the late 80s and early 90s exist in the UK today (as evidenced by the fact that the UK government has allowed the Scottish referendum to take place in the first place - not a privilege afforded to the Yugoslav republics by Belgrade).
Whatever happens following the referendum (yes or no), a Balkan-style war is not on the cards.