dear pat ryan:
Ask yourself one question: are you of average or above average intelligence?
IF THE ANSWER IS YES >>>>GET A NEW INSTRUCTOR RIGHT AWAY.
IF you feel you are below average intelligence, HOW CAN YOU BE USING A COMPUTER? ;-)
Get a new instructor. I've been around for quite awhile and I have seen it all. While I have not instructed in Ireland, I will tell you this. Taking time for a walk around inspection means you are being thorough and looking for understanding in all of the new world of aviation and planes.
This instructor sounds like he likes to put you down, to elevate himself.
And, since you are new to flying, I hope you go out and BUY "Stick And Rudder" and read it 10 times over!
Good Luck to you.