Abandoning the pilot upgrade process is actually a great idea.
Money that was spent on that ridiculous process could be re-directed and spent on support and advice for new captains as well as hiring managers who are approachable and willing to help you and educate you when you have an issue rather than those who want to punish you and shake a stick at you. After all, how many guys don't eventually upgrade...just have a look at the seniority list.