Despite the 40 years of research and training that has gone into CRM it amazes me at how many F/Os still think that CRM is something the Captain is responsible for. I don't think your experience is unusual. On a similar thread but from the F/O's point of view I don't see why CRM is being referred to as 5th generation as pilots on both sides of the centre pedestal haven't come to grips with the first generation of CRM. That is communicate to the other person what you are doing and why you are doing it.