A Job that actually means something
Some companies (mine included) offer unpaid leave. Yes its a hit to the paypacket but when my kids were young, its the only way we managed juggling everything as a family. Our daughter was very ill in the first two years so nothing else mattered to be fair.
Sometimes the pace of the job just doesnt leave you time to get head space, especially if you are sharing childcare etc with a partner who also works.