Unfortunately to truely glide you need a team of people to help you do it. Clubs are generally not run for profit, so they rely on members helping out with the building maintenance, providing food etc, it's just the way the gliding community works.
I don't think you'll be able to find what you're looking for without annoying a lot of people, who unless you pay them a lot, will soon get annoyed and stop helping you to get airborne.