Stopped giving to them.
Too many fiddles going on with these sort of things you know? Not saying that's the case here, but there seem to be an awful lot of military associate can carriers around the country right now, shaking people down for money.
Bet you an awful lot never gets anywhere near the needful.
Just a hunch I'm developing.
Seriously, I've stopped giving (even to the RBL) until some clarity starts to emerge.