Further to all the previous words of comfort, I'd just like to add that if you're using a smallish club, there's much to be gained from hangar flying on crappy days..shootin' the breeze and at least talking about Things Close To Your Heart.
Circuit bashing as usually possible if it's not too awful..or if you're lucky you might find a spare seat in an IFR flight. Just being a passenger can be most enlightening.
Read the books, drool over the glossies, run around the carpark with your arms outstretched..keep dreaming. It'll happen. It's a triumph of GB that any of us achieve avaition, but we do.
Good luck.
nic