Life is one big risk & the dangers are always ever present whether yr just sitting there reading about Jabba's adventures, flying a SE plane in IMC or riding a powerful motorbike drunk as a skunk, it's yr choice, yr decision to take those risks so I see little reason to way up what's riskier, flying or driving or any other activity so therefore if you find it too risky then simply avoid it, mostly no one forces you to do anything your not keen on all of the above can kill you & will continue to do so on a reg basis.
My activities, my decisions as to the way I drive, to chose not to fly SE in any inclement wx, the selling of my motor bike all suit ME,generally I don't take risks I am not prepared to die for, choice, it's all about choice:-)
If anyone asks me ..........is flying dangerous? I simply say yes, avoids all logic trying to explain otherwise
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Wmk2