The compensation information is available on the Emirates careers website and others.
In terms of being married - you can get a living allowance to live with your husband. You will not be on the crew transport buses when you 'live-out'. If I remember rightly, you live in the crew accom during training and can then move out.
The thing with EK is, the acceptance rate is very low. Somewhere between 2-4% of applications receive a job offer. May I ask your age? As that figure declines with age.