A bit of a check with some ex-AN F/A's should soon confirm your story's veracity or otherwise,
blat.
Why you - as
supposedly responsible pilot - would feel it "funny" to drive another wedge between Cabin Crews and pilots by recanting stories of how you punished Cabin Crew whom you were unable to incorporate as part of a TEAM, is beyond me!
In YOUR opinion, she might have had a "fat arse" - in her's YOU probably have a
FAT HEAD.