With all due respect Scott C when I read this it leaves me with a question.
Away from flying, as an example, when I wash up everything gets put in order on the draining board rack, cups are aligned perfectly and when making a cup of tea for a number of people, all the cups have to be inline and the handles all facing to the front... I can't help it, it's the way I am.
If you are so fixated on incidental issues how much does that take away from seeing the big picture ahead of the airplane?