bit of a misunderstanding here.
He is a she for one thing!
Secondly noone is getting me to "hang in a fully developed stall with full flap with him fannying around tap dancing on the rudder pedals."
The plane stalls with some wing drop, as I recover I have a habit of yanking the yoke around to try and correct.
This doesn't help.
I'm trying to stop doing this.
<sigh, I waited almost a day before posting this because I had a suspicion the thread was going to go this way>